Negative emotions like anger, fear and sadness can be hard to know what to do with... We don't want to project them out onto other people all the time, but we can't ignore them either or they will find their own way to escape....
Until we express them or confront them somehow they have a real hold over us and can really pull us down into fear and depression. A great way to get our power back is to have fun with the emotion, expressing it over-dramatically until its hard not to laugh at it and ourselves...
This is a fun and healthy way to let emotions out in short bursts, and to see the funny side :)
Most of us in our society are left-brain dominant. As a test to see how dominant your left half is, try to say only the COLOR of the following words:
How did you go? If
the left brain is dominant it will try to overrule the right brain by
reading the word instead of allowing you to focus solely on its color. And yes, left-brainers, I am aware of the spelling mistake! :P
Similar to the yin-yang symbol, the hemispheres of the brain represent opposing forces of energy, yet each also contains the other within it. Both sides of the brain are being used when we do any task, be it creative (right-brain) or analytical (left-brain), but how the task is approached and carried out is influenced by which side of the brain is dominating at the time. Ultimately, we perform best when we use the whole brain in balance - a brain using both sides of itself equally and in harmony will succeed in utilizing its full potential. Einstein and Leonardo DaVinci are famous examples of whole brain thinkers.
Although a simplistic explanation, here are some of the general characteristics or 'personalities' of the different hemispheres. (Importantly, although the two hemispheres can be seen to represent
masculine and feminine energies, this does not refer to
males and females - men and women both use the right and left sides of their brains, and have masculine and feminine
energies within them.)
The LEFT BRAIN = masculine energy = controls the right side of the body and is adept at language, facts, science, math, strategies, details, following formulas and carrying out
instructions. It thinks hierarchically and dualistically, it likes to label and categorise things to understand them. Apparently, the left brain is responsible for the body's movement towards the right, so when we read from left-to-right our left brain is being activated.
The left brain gives us our concept of time, analysing the past and planning for
the future. This makes the left brain very outcome-oriented.
While we chose our words with the left
brain, we chose our tone of voice with our right brain because we
process our emotions with the right side.
The RIGHT BRAIN = feminine energy = controls the left half of the body. Engages
with the experience of the present moment, guided by feelings, intuition, imagination and subjective thinking. Creative, impulsive, emotional, thoughtful, and appreciates the beauty
of form, movement and sound. It is
also representative of the heart because of its ability to comprehend empathy, compassion and to see the bigger picture.
The
left brain has gotten a bad rap lately as we come to terms with the
destructive nature of our logical-yet-insane patriarchal (left-brain dominant) society; its easy to paint the picture of a stern left-brain 'school teacher' character holding a whip and ruining all the child-like right-brain's fun. But it
is the imbalance that is the problem and not the left-brain itself.
Without our left-brain we would be in big trouble, unable to speak or
read or even have an idea of ourselves as individuals, seperate from the objects around us.
Jill Bolte-Taylor explains in this amazing talk what it feels like when the left-brain shuts down (due to a stroke) and the right-brain takes over:
How to Achieve a Balance:
By achieving the balance of our right-left
hemispheres, we can end the war of the opposing energies within our own minds. Masculine and feminine can work together in unison. We
can be creative and imaginative, and realistic and practical at the same time...
glory be.
There are larger lifestyle changes that can help us to maintain this balance, like choosing activities that will stimulate our brains in new ways - for example if you are an accountant, try playing an instrument or dancing in your spare time. Or if you are a visual artist, try learning a new language to stretch your mind. Both sides of the brain work on a use-it-or-lose-it basis.
A more immediate way to balance our brains is through Alternate Nostril Breathing. Its been discovered that as our brain hemispheres alternate their influence, so does which nostril we are breathing through! If the left-brain is dominating, our right nostril will be doing most of our breathing and vice versa. We tend to switch back and forth between the two unconsciously around 10 times a day. We can bring an immediate balance our brain hemispheres through the practice of conscious alternate nostril breathing.
As you breathe imagine the breath coming in one nostril, up and over the bridge of your nose, and out the other nostril. Here's how its done:
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